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       One her/himself only can answer this question rightly. If you have answered the previous questions to yourself, you must know by now who it is. Esp. why we love [LOVE 5] is directly concerned with whom we love.

       To make it easy I can just say that you should love the person that have the ‘mutual heart’. [Concern LOVE 8. c)]

“Love is not to find the perfect person. It is to learn to see an imperfect person perfectly.”

       When you are in love with someone, you can easily overlook minor faults in them.

       If you are still confused and want to be more specific, try this:

“The way to love anything is to realise that it might be lost.”

—G. K. Chesterton.

       Now try to imagine that the one, you are confused about, is lost. Does it make any major difference? In analysing this try to keep in mind that you are thinking about the ‘one’ you need the most (as you can have the need of more than one person differently).

[{(That is to say, if you think everyone indispensable, try to rank them and take the first one. Otherwise you will have to face controversy! We will discuss more about it later [LOVE 10].)}]

[P.S. There are some people also who think:

“I know that somewhere in the Universe exists my perfect soul mate — but looking for her is much more difficult than just staying at home and ordering another pizza.”

—Alf Whit.

       …If this is your case, then leave love alone and better have pizza (if Love leaves you alone, of course!).]

To be continued…